Eevee DOF more samples near focus point

Coming from C4DI truly love Eevee and the quick renders it provides, but the biggest thing that bugs me is the DOF jumps near the focus point. Making a simple animation flying through some objects, or things moving to the camera now have these DOF jumps.

You can see the jumps here: youtu.be/flRJ1Io1dEE

I tried upping or lowering the ratio, but that not really fixes anything.

Is there another way around it of really a new feature that has to be added?